Having trouble moving forward on a big project? Whether you’re filling your time with everything but what needs to be done to accomplish the task at hand, or just feeling too overwhelmed to even get started, you can make real progress on your projects by checking out my advice in this 99U article, “Victim No More: How To Stop Self-Sabotaging.” Acknowledge avoidance, focus on small easy wins, and get the job done! Read more insightful tips here. You’ve got this! About Real Life E® Elizabeth Grace Saunders is the founder and CEO of Real Life E® a time coaching and training company that empowers individuals who feel guilty, overwhelmed and...
Read MoreHeaven or Hell… when your relationships are going well, life can be really, really good. When they’re not, it can negatively impact your entire life. To do my part to help you have better relationships with those around you–especially those with different time personalities–I’m sharing with you one of the recordings from the “Achieve Your Resolutions, Relax & Reduce Stress” training I put out in conjunction with my book launch. In just 20 minutes, you’ll hear me talk you through some of the key concepts from Chapter 9 “Time Peace: Reduce Time-Caused Drama.” Plus I cover these topics not included in the...
Read More“How does he find time to meet with 10 customers a week and make his yearly quota in the first quarter?,” a salesman wonders about his top producing coworker. I can barely find time to have five appointments a week and get all my paperwork done correctly and turned in on time. “How does she manage to champion strategic initiatives, network with executives, and only work 40 hours a week?,” a manager ponders about his colleague on the corporate fast track. After a day full of project meetings, the best I can do is reactively respond to e-mail at night instead of proactively developing my department. Here’s the secret: Your colleagues that...
Read MoreWhen the worlds of the Planners and the Spontaneous collide, fireworks—not the romantic kind—can erupt. The Planners think the Spontaneous are being inconsiderate jerks. The Spontaneous think the Planners are being control freaks. Who’s right? Who’s wrong? And can they possibly get along? I answer these questions and more in my recent Lifehacker article “How to Prevent Time-Caused Conflict at Home and at Work.” With perspectives and empowerment tips for the spontaneous and the planners, I create a firework-worthy (the good kind!) strategy for calmer, positive relationships. Take a peek at this article today! About Real Life...
Read MoreRecently, a huge online discussion about people-pleasers versus self-pleasers was sparked by my recent article, “Stop being a People Pleaser.” As one reader explains, ” I’d love to see an article taking the opposite position: How do I start pleasing other people and caring about their needs? I’m kind of a cynical, misanthropic [jerk] and apparently that’s not OK in most lines of business. Do I change, or do I find a new line of work?” In response, I explored the perspectives of both types of people in: “To Please or Not to Please, That is the Question.” Outlining the two different perspectives, I explain how we can...
Read MoreLife rarely perfectly follows a plan. But that doesn’t mean that you should just give up and not make a plan. It means that you should embrace a realistic expectation of what planning can and can not do for you: Planning Can Not: Guarantee everything will go perfectly. Make all work fit within the desired estimates. Eliminate all unexpected obstacles. Planning Can: Give you clarity on your priorities. Reassure you that you’re not forgetting anything. Allow you to get the most important things done on time. The importance of realistic planning was re-emphasized for me in the completion of my book manuscript, which I turned in this summer. I would like to...
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