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E Note-My Own Schedule Makeover Part II

Monday, July 27th, 2009

Sticking to my schedule allows me to enjoy a relaxed weekend with the awesome Simmons family!

Sticking to my schedule allowed me to enjoy a relaxed weekend with the awesome Simmons family on the East Coast!

Making a schedule is the first step to a life of peace and success, and keeping it is the second step. (To get a sneak peek at how I organize my time, check out Part I in this series.)

Once I’ve done my morning processing, I use these strategies to stick to my ideal schedule and complete the most critical tasks:

In the afternoon, I take a quick assessment of how many hours I have left and what needs to be done to hit my ending goal. This could mean moving on to a new project, pushing to complete an assignment, or revising my expectations for the day.

To really ensure I stick to my end time, I try to schedule activities right after work. It could be something as simple as a scheduled phone call, a walk with a friend, or going to a networking event. Knowing that I will cause inconvenience to someone else by working late really helps me stop myself. (My clients who have trouble starting work in the morning use this trick at the beginning of their day.)

As a final level of reinforcement, I time block out my evening. Like Tim Ferriss says in The 4-Hour Workweek, you have to clearly define what you will do to fill the void created by working fewer hours. For me that means inviting friends over for dinner or planning a specific projects like entering receipts in my budget or doing laundry. By giving myself a clear objective, I remind myself that working beyond my set schedule comes at a cost. If I procrastinate or over commit, I’m acutely aware that I’m keeping myself from doing other activities. This motivates me to plan my time and my responsibilities so I can stick to 8:30 a.m.-5:30 p.m. and then stop—guilt free!

You can move forward on important projects and keep up on mundane task by setting a schedule that works for you and then strengthening these new habits (kind of like training muscles with consistent lifting). If you need help with this process, contact me about a Schedule Makeover.

You don’t need to feel frustrated, overwhelmed, or guilty any more!

Elizabeth

If you’re struggling to set a schedule, check out www.ScheduleMakeover.com or contact me at esaunders@RealLifeE.com. I can help you develop a system for moving forward on your goals.

Elizabeth Grace Saunders is a time coach and keynote speaker who empowers women in business to build businesses and achieve work/life brilliance™ through her exclusive Schedule Makeover™ process. Inc magazine, NBC, and The Chicago Tribune are just a few of the places where Elizabeth has appeared, and she’s happy to offer you tips on savvy scheduling and time management for work/life balance and business development.

E Note-In Praise of Routine

Thursday, July 23rd, 2009

Celestial Seasonings® tea boxes have a way of speaking to me… this was on their Perfectly Pear™ White Tea:

“What is it about my daily rituals? Why such pleasure in repetition? Well, it occurs to me that I might just be practicing… being me. Those cherished creaks in the old floorboards. The precise angle of the winter sun cheering my kitchen. Assembling ingredients for a dish  I’ve made hundreds of times. A novel position my cats have adopted, lost in their midday dreams. Each nuance resonates with a kind of timeless wisdom, and I realize thiat it is these humble putterings–nothing fancier–that have allowed me, finally, to know myself.”–David Jacoby

To being yourself!
Elizabeth

If you’re struggling to find these quiet moments, check out www.ScheduleMakeover.com or contact me at esaunders@RealLifeE.com. I can help you develop a routine for a peaceful, beautiful life.

Elizabeth Grace Saunders is a time coach and trainer who empowers women in business to build businesses and achieve work/life brilliance™ through her exclusive Schedule Makeover™ process. Inc magazine, NBC, and The Chicago Tribune are just a few of the places where Elizabeth has appeared, and she’s happy to offer you tips on savvy scheduling and time management for work/life balance and business development.

E Note-My Own Schedule Makeover Part I

Wednesday, July 15th, 2009

My schedule helps me to spend time with my family.

My schedule helps me to spend time with my family.

When I started my first business in 2005, I had a completely haphazard schedule and would answer e-mails after going out with friends and stay up until 2 a.m. finishing projects.  This lead to almost constant feelings of stress when working and guilt when not working.

Something had to change.

So less than a year into entrepreneurship, I started setting a schedule and making a goal of working a certain amount of hours per week. These constraints helped me to carve out time to invest in the relationships that make my life truly rich–without feeling guilty for taking time to relax!

Here’s My Routine:

Each weekday, I get up at 6 a.m. and go through my morning routine—breakfast, prayer, shower, stare out the window, etc. By 8:15 a.m., I’m at my computer and answer a few personal e-mails before starting to work at 8:30 a.m. One of my first activities of the day is going into an Excel spreadsheet where I record when I plan to start and stop work and take my lunch break. Then I spend the first 1 ½ to 2 hours of my day doing my routine processing.

Going through this checklist each morning has a number of benefits:
•    I don’t waste time deciding how to start.
•    I can operate on autopilot if my brain still needs to wake up.
•    I feel confident that I’m up-to-date on all recent communication.
•    I feel no compulsion to answer e-mail or answer the phone throughout the day.
•    I’m able to set a clear list of objectives and time block based on the most recent data.

Once I’m done with processing, I do sales calls and e-mails for about an hour. I set this as my next time block because it’s one of the most important ways I can grow my business but one of the activities I most avoided. By putting it first, I actually complete this task and it doesn’t even stress me out anymore! (To keep myself motivated, I sometimes treat myself by moving to a new location–like the sunny backyard–before contacting women in business conference organizers and potential time coaching clients.)

The rest of my hours contain an ever-changing mix of business development projects, client assignments, and meetings. At the beginning of each week, I roughly time block these into my schedule to make sure I’m fitting in the most important projects. Then each morning, I review my daily plan, number the tasks in order of importance, and then set more precise time sprints.

This system:
•    Forces me to be very realistic about how much I can get done and still be able to wrap up by 5:30 p.m.
•    Directs my focus to the most urgent and important tasks first. If I don’t complete the items at the bottom of my list, it usually doesn’t matter if take care of them the next day.
•    Puts me on autopilot. I start on the first task and then move to the next and the next without questioning what’s most important. To allow my mind to make the mental shift between projects, I’ll usually get up from my computer and get a cup of tea or let myself take 5-to-10 minutes to check e-mail. Then it’s on to the next project.

I hope you find this sneak peek into my world insightful. In next week’s blog post, I’ll share more details about how I stay focused and build in motivation and accountability.

But the big thing I want you to remember is that setting the right schedule can play a huge role in your ability to stay positive and make progress toward your goals–whether those include looking for a job, building a business, making more sales, or simply having more time to sleep. I have some Schedule Makeover clients that get up at 4:30 a.m. and others that rise at 9 a.m. Both schedules work well because they suit my clients’ personal preferences and body rhythms.

The key to success is find the system that works for you!

Have a brilliant day!

Elizabeth

If you’re struggling to set a schedule, check out www.ScheduleMakeover.com or contact me at esaunders@RealLifeE.com. I can help you develop a system for moving forward on your goals.

Elizabeth Grace Saunders is a time coach and trainer who empowers women in business to build businesses and achieve work/life brilliance™ through her exclusive Schedule Makeover™ process. Inc magazine, NBC, and The Chicago Tribune are just a few of the places where Elizabeth has appeared, and she’s happy to offer you tips on savvy scheduling and time management for work/life balance and business development.

June Newsletter-Have You Made Time to Grieve?

Wednesday, July 1st, 2009
Michele Deville featured in Real Life E newsletter

Michele Deville featured in Real Life E newsletter

The most recent Brilliant Time Strategies newsletter just went out yesterday. In it, I featured Michele Deville, who in addition to being a coach, speaker, and author is a volunteer grief counselor.

If you’re going through difficult times and didn’t receive the newsletter, sign up in the bar at right, and you’ll receive a link on the Thank You page to this important information.

Don’t neglect yourself during hard times… when you take time to love and care for yourself, you heal and then have the capacity to love and care for others.

Take care,

Elizabeth

If you want to end your feelings of overwhelm and guilt and step into the future with confidence, check out www.ScheduleMakeover.com or contact me at esaunders@RealLifeE.com I can develop an ideal schedule for you that helps you get through stressful times.

Elizabeth Grace Saunders is a time coach and trainer who empowers women in business to achieve work/life brilliance™ through her exclusive Schedule Makeover™ process. Inc magazine, NBC, and The Chicago Tribune are just a few of the places where Elizabeth has appeared, and she’s happy to offer you tips on savvy scheduling and time management for work/life balance.

E Note-Calming Advice for Bride-to-Be

Tuesday, June 23rd, 2009

103I recently received this note from a bride-to-be:

“I am getting married in 5 weeks, and it’s just busy and I have a lot on my “plate”–some stuff I can’t control and some I can control.  I get stressed easily and uptight. I don’t want every change, road block, or honestly my stubbornness to get in the way of the joy and abundant life God has for me and my future husband. I want to break free of this. I am a very organized and sometimes controlling person so when I get impatient or my plans are thrown for a loop I get stressed and in a bad mood sometimes.

I feel like there is no time for everything I want to get done in one day! It’s frustrating.”

She’s not alone! This is a situation that plagues many brides-to-be or any one approaching a major emotionally involved event or project.

Here’s my advice:

1. Recognize that this is a stressful time of life. You not only have a ton to do with
preparing for the wedding but also are going through the grieving process of leaving your
your old life of singleness and starting a new season. It’s natural to feel sad/be more
sensitive.

2. Realize that you aren’t going to be able to do everything you want to do. As you plan the weeks before your wedding, ask yourself two questions:
-Is this an essential or optional wedding activity?
-Is this something that needs to be done before the wedding or can it wait?

Then focus on the essential activities that must be done before the wedding. If you get
any of the optional or “could wait” items done, great but don’t put pressure on yourself
to make them happen.

3. I understand the feeling of getting stressed or impatient when things don’t go as planned. I wrote a blog post on dealing with this topic: http://tinyurl.com/lhf3n3 Also,
I’ve found it helps enormously when I start my day asking God what He wants me to
accomplish and praying throughout the day that I will focus on loving God and loving
people instead of just “getting things done.”

Hope this helps all brides-to-be to take a deep breath and enjoy this beautiful season!

Take care,

Elizabeth

If you want to end your feelings of overwhelm and frustration and step into the future with confidence, check out www.ScheduleMakeover.com or contact me at esaunders@RealLifeE.com I can develop an ideal schedule for you that helps you get through stressful times.

Elizabeth Grace Saunders is a time coach and trainer who empowers women in business to achieve work/life brilliance™ through her exclusive Schedule Makeover™ process. Inc magazine, NBC, and The Chicago Tribune are just a few of the places where Elizabeth has appeared, and she’s happy to offer you tips on savvy scheduling and time management for work/life balance.

Some Other Bride To Be Resources:

Dresses, Food, Invitations, Etc. on Brides.com

Good Advice Bridal Shower

Becoming We on DivineCaroline.com

E Note-How to Enjoy Graduation Season

Monday, May 25th, 2009

My brother's graduation. Go John!

My brother's graduation. Go John!

In the past two weeks, I’ve sat through four graduation ceremonies with more people streaming by in funny robes than Star Wars!

But thanks to the fact that I have learned (and relearned) how to live out my ideal schedule, I was able to enjoy seeing my brother and sister walk across the stage and also cheer on friends for their accomplishments (go Varnya!) It’s such a blessing to share in commemorating milestones without frantically checking e-mail or worrying about what still needed to be done. When you have a plan, you can rest in the moment and be fully present.

Although this may seem impossible right now, this kind of confidence and tranquility can be yours too!!!

Check out ScheduleMakeover.com and sign up for my newsletter through RealLifeE.com to discover the keys to work/life brilliance™. (The month’s newsletter features exclusive content from Sandi McKenna on saving time and money with 4 fabulous online PR tools–you won’t find this info anywhere on my blog.)

Have a brilliant day!!

Elizabeth

If you want to end your feelings of overwhelm and guilt and step into the future with confidence, contact Elizabeth today.

Elizabeth Grace Saunders is a time coach and trainer who empowers women in business to achieve work/life brillianceTM through strategic time management. Inc magazine, NBC, and The Chicago Tribune are just a few of the places where Elizabeth has appeared, and she’s happy to be interviewed for your publication or broadcast.

E Tip-Banish Guilt By Sticking to Your Hours

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009

Me-Enjoying Spring-Guilt Free!

Me-Enjoying Spring-Guilt Free!

I feel so guilty that I’m not spending more time with my family.
I feel so guilty for taking a vacation.
I feel so guilty for not getting that project done…

Sound familiar?

Many women in business and particularly women business owners and mompreneurs struggle with feeling guilty that they’re not doing enough, being enough, and putting enough time into each part of their life.

I can definitely relate. Before I discovered the keys to work/life brilliance™ (revealed through schedulemakeover.com), I would feel guilty for not working any time I had a spare moment. But after I decided to set my hours and the number of hours I worked per week, I strengthened my ability to focus during work hours and then gave myself the freedom to not work the rest of the time–Guilt Free!

I know some of you might think, “What?! I don’t want to be someone who just wants to clock in and out.”

Don’t worry. I’m not suggesting that you become apathetic. But I know from my own experience and those of others that if you are motivated and passionate about your work and don’t set hours, you will end up neglecting your life and often won’t focus on what’s most important when you are working. (See this WomenEntrepreneur.com blogger’s post on how the Schedule Makeover™ process helped her succeed both personally and professionally.)

To start thinking about what your ideal hours might look like, ask yourself these questions:

* What number of hours would I need to work in order to have time for the other activities I enjoy and for self care?
* When do I have the most energy?
*Am I most productive in the morning or at night?
* Are there particular days when I’m able to work more or less? (i.e. you may be more motivated on Mondays or have a class on Thursdays)
* Do I perform better working straight through lunch or do I function better when I take a break?

For Lauren Berger of WomenEntrepeneur.com and InternQueen fame, her ideal hours were: 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. and 3 p.m. to 11 p.m. Monday through Wednesday, 9:30 a.m. to 6 p.m. Thursday and Friday, and 4 p.m. to 11 p.m. on Sundays.

I completed a Schedule Makeover™ on Lauren that worked within her preferred hours and gave her time for exercise, sleep, friends, and building her business–all without guilt!

Now that’s what I call work/life brilliance™!

Elizabeth

If you want to end your feelings of overwhelm and guilt and step into the future with confidence and enthusiasm, contact Elizabeth today. Why suffer from burn-out, overwhelm, and guilt, when you could be free today!!!?

Elizabeth Grace Saunders is a time coach who empowers women business owners to achieve work/life brilliance.TM Inc magazine, NBC, and The Chicago Tribune are just a few of the places where Elizabeth has appeared, and she’s happy to be interviewed for your publication or broadcast.

E Profile-3-Day Weeks Leave Time for 3 Boys

Wednesday, April 15th, 2009

Tammy Huinker, Molly Maid Franchise Owner

Tammy Huinker, Molly Maid Franchise Owner

In 1995, Tammy Huinker had a 4-year-old, a corporate job, and a burning desire to own her own business. “This was a huge risk,  but something I needed,” Tammy says.”After years of thinking about starting a business, I decided I wanted to run a franchise. If I was going to take the plunge and put money into a company, I wanted the trials and errors at someone else’s expense!”

Tammy knew one of her big priorities was a schedule that fit with her family, including not working nights and weekends. “This left about 5 percent of the businesses,” Tammy laughs.  Of the ones remaining, Molly Maid fit her requirements in terms of day-time hours, a quality reputation, and a high level of professionalism.

In July, Tammy quit her job and opened her doors for business on September 1.

Family-Focused From the Start

“My son was already in a daycare situation, but at my other job, I had to pick him up at 6 p.m.,” Tammy says. “I told myself going into my business that I would work strictly 8-5 so I could drop him off and pick him up at 5:15 p.m. I decided I didn’t have to work 50–60 hours a week, and except for the occasional evening estimate, I didn’t work nights or weekends.”

Six months later, Tammy had a surprise–make that two! She was pregnant with twins.

“I brought in another office person–who is still with me–and when I had the twins, I went down to three days a week,” Tammy says. “My twins are 12, and I’ve only worked 24 hours a week since they were born, unless I’m covering for someone’s vacation.”

Still Growing Strong in Just Three Days a Week

Over the past 14 years, Tammy’s business has grown to include three office personnel and 23 cleaners. “I just feel it’s all in the management of having your business under control and people you can rely on,” Tammy says. “I could personally make more money, but I don’t want to put in 40 hours a week–that’s just my choice. I feel mentally healthier because my kids need me and love that every other day I’m home. I’m just a happier person that way.”

Tammy is a perfect example of building her business in a way that empowers her to live her ideal lifestyle. Discover more of the secrets to her success in next week’s post!

Until then, have a brilliant day!

Elizabeth

P.S.–If you’re interested in taking control of your business so you have more time for your kids, contact me to set up a consultation.

To find out more about Molly Maid, go to: www.MollyMaid.com. If you’re in the Ankeny, Iowa, area and are interested in house cleaning services, you can contact Tammy at Molly Maid Ankeny at 515-964-4111.

Elizabeth Grace Saunders is a time management coach who empowers entrepreneurs to build businesses without burning out.

Inc magazine, NBC, and The Chicago Tribune are just a few of the places where Elizabeth has appeared, and she’s happy to be interviewed for your publication or broadcast.

E Tip-Shut Up & Cast Out the Voice of Overwhelm

Thursday, April 9th, 2009

This is what I would look like if I didn't shut up the voice of overwhelm!

This is what I would look like if I didn't shut up the voice of overwhelm!

For almost two years, I’ve aimed to build a business while working about 40 hours a week so I would have time for physical, relational, and spiritual health. But that doesn’t mean setting time boundaries is always easy for me. On a daily basis, I have to combat the voices in my head that tell me “You are not working enough,” “You are not successful enough,” “You are not making enough,” etc…..

Do you hear any of those  voices? Or if you can’t quite hear a voice do you sometimes feel an inexplicable sense of terror at the thought of actually taking time to relax or slow down?

If so, this exercise can lead to freedom for you. (It’s a cliff notes version of concepts in “The Worry Free Life.”)

  • Draw a line down the center of a piece of paper. Write “The Voice” at the top of the left column and “My Response” at the top of the right.
  • Start to write down all of the voices that you hear in your head in the left column. If they come out in the “I” form, rewrite them in the “you” form. For example: “I need to work all the time” should be translated into “You need to work all the time.”
  • Writing these voices in the “You” form exposes them as an outside force negatively influencing you instead of you identifying with these voices as your own inescapable thoughts.
  • In the right column, respond to these voices using this formula:
    For demands write: “Why should I (fill in demand)?”
    For statements write: “So what if you think (fill in statement)?”
    For questions write: “It’s none of your business!”
  • If you want to take your counter attack one step further, after your first response, write down truths such as: “I have the ability to choose when I will work.” and “I can succeed without working all the time.”

I know this sounds funny, but it works! I’m in the midst of building my time management coaching business and developing a couple of new products. This week, I’ve heard and fought off these voices of overwhelm in my head:

  • You are a loser.
  • You have to do everything at once.
  • You’ll fall behind.
  • If you don’t do everything at once that you can think of, you’ll fall behind.
  • You’re not good enough.
  • You’re not working hard enough.
  • It all depends on you.

I recognized these lies and responded to them using the above technique and was able to stay focused and move forward with confidence.

What voices of overwhelm are tormenting you? It’s time to tell them to shut up and cast them out with the truth! Please use this technique, check out the book, and if you need extra help, be in touch with me about a coaching consultation. You don’t have to conquer overwhelm alone!

Have a brilliant day!

Elizabeth

Elizabeth Grace Saunders is a time coach who empowers individuals  who are overwhelmed and frustrated because they want to achieve a life of peace and productivity but are struggling to make it happen. She helps  them set priorities, set expectations and set routines so that they move forward, feel peaceful and have time for themselves and the people they love.

E Press-I’m in Inc Magazine on page 22

Thursday, March 12th, 2009
My definition of success: Spending a work-free week in Hawaii with one of my best friends!

My definition of success: Spending a work-free week in Hawaii with one of my best friends!

22 must be my lucky number! In the November 2008 issue of Inc magazine, I was featured on p. 22 along with a bunch of other awesome entrepreneurs from the Inc 500 conference.

Now, you can check out the March 2009 issue of Inc magazine to see my quote on p. 22 about “What’s the best part of owning your business?”

My answer is right at the top: “Defining success. You set the goals, and you sit on both sides of the table at the performance review.” Elizabeth Grace Saunders, Real Life E®

Being a full-time entrepreneur has given me the freedom to not only do what I want to do, but be who I want to be. Sure, I probably don’t make as much as some of my friends, but I have an amazingly rich life full of treasured friendships, amazing adventures (I was in Hawaii last week!), and inner peace. I can set the pace of my professional career–at about 40 hours a week–and have time to live a fantastic life in the process.

I couldn’t ask for anything more!

So if you have a chance, check out Inc and have a brilliant day based on your personal definition of success!

Elizabeth

Elizabeth Grace Saunders is a time strategist who focuses on “Time Strategies to Create a Brilliant Life in a Burnt-Out World.” She teaches others how to control their time instead of letting it control them and practices what she preaches by running two businesses in just 40 hours a week. Elizabeth has been featured in Inc magazine, The Chicago Tribune, and on NBC.

If you liked this and want to find out more, check out Elizabeth’s time management coaching, training, speaking, and resources!